The dopamine hit isn't the answer.
It's the new connection. The fresh start. The clean slate where this time — with the right phrasing, the right approach — you'll finally get it right.
Sound familiar? It should. It's the same loop as every platform that profits from your attention. The new feed. The new thread. The new conversation that might finally say the thing you need to hear.
Social media made you feel connected. AI makes you feel productive. The emotional valence changed. The underlying loop didn't.
You're not wrong to find it useful. It IS useful. But useful and healthy are different assessments. A hammer is useful. Using a hammer to feel better about yourself is a different thing entirely.
This is the part of the show where we ask: what would you want instead?